Every man likes to think that they are doing just fine when it comes to fulfilling their partner’s sexual needs. However, research studies show that a larger number of women are dissatisfied with their partner’s overall performance.
Some men tend to stick to habits, which are strict and often inflexible when it comes to lovemaking. However, as women are into it more for the experience than simply the pleasure, there are certain pointers that men need to know.
Here are the top 5 sex mistakes that men need to avoid:
1.She doesn’t have only one ‘Turn On’ button
At times, men will initiate sex without much prelude to it. Foreplay tends to be shorter than what most women would care to admit. Men get turned on faster than women, while women need to be pleased with small gestures and prepared for the intercourse.
Try to initiate the craving by giving her hugs and kisses all throughout the day. Experts suggest that hugging for simply 30 seconds helps to release oxytocin in the body, which helps women to feel, connected and secure with their partner.
2.Don’t assume what she wants
According to research studies, most of the women faking orgasms are reportedly in their late 20s and 30s.
Be ready to ask her about what she wants, and what makes her click. Men, don’t hesitate to ask for directions in bed at least.
3.Step up the seduction
Women love to be seduced. When you know your partner’s likes and dislikes, you will be able to decide better how to bring her in the right mood.
Seduction works to ensure your women that you find her extremely desirable which helps to turn her on even more. Holding hands, smiling at her and random hugs and kisses pave the way for a romantic and memorable sexual experience for women and men alike.
4.Avoid silent sex
Women, as told before, are looking for overall stimulation. This includes their physical and emotional aspects as well. Foreplay should not include only stimulating her body, it should also include tantalizing her mind.
Murmuring her fantasies or simply confessing your feelings for your partner during sex is a great attractive stimulator. Whispering sweet nothings, appreciating her beauty and describing the sensations you are feeling can help turn on a woman extensively.
5.Care for the ‘C’
The clitoris is by far one of the most erogenous zones of women. Men tend to think that it is simply the small ‘button’ above the vulva whereas in reality its nerve endings stretch down and reach the opening of the vagina.
Oral sex is a great way to stimulate the clitoris completely and help your partner achieve an intense orgasm.
These 5 tips can help to improve your sex life more than you know. Sex is all about connecting physically and emotionally with your partner, for a woman. Hence, it is important for men to ensure that all bases are covered when it comes to pleasuring your partner in bed.